If I sent you a PM, would you publish it without my permission?
That's funny. How many times did elders reveal confidential information to their wives, children, friends, and even non-jws. I can't even count them. I'm still hearing to this day from elders who the latest sister is that had a threesome, the latest brother who hired a prostitute, the latest wife who was caught on the website, "Do you want to have an Affair" And I've been inactive for almost 2 years---LOL!
We are adults and should know by now that if we want to keep something secret, then don't tell anyone. If we reveal to someone something that we don't want known and it later comes out one way or another, then we only have only ourselves to blame. It's human nature to share things with others.
If you don't want others to know, take it to the grave.